This morning I received this email from Common Ills. There are 2531 e-mails in the inbox. We do not have time for pen pals. Jess responded to your e-mail yesterday. You didn't grasp that when Jess mentioned Mike and Rebecca he did so for a reason. This community that C.I. created has many online sites including: The Third Estate Sunday Review 's Jim, Dona, Ty, Jess, and Ava, Rebecca of Sex and Politics and Screeds and Attitude , Betty of Thomas Friedman Is a Great Man , C.I. of The Common Ills and The Third Estate Sunday Review , Kat of Kat's Korner (of The Common Ills) , Cedric of Cedric's Big Mix , Mike of Mikey Likes It! , Elaine of Like Maria Said Paz , Ruth of Ruth's Report , Wally of The Daily Jot , and Marcia SICKOFITRDLZ . The mistake you made is in assuming that we do not all share. As Jess was pointing out to you, he knows (as do I, as does everyone) about your e-mails to Mike and Rebecca. He had no reason to be nice to you. As you did with Rebecca and...