After I blogged about two women I admire, a discussion developed about women posing for magazines, beauty pageants (and why I hate them), and so on. My thinking along these lines has changed a lot over the years. In my 20s, I stashed it all under the category of "objectifying", and disdained it. I read a lot of classic second-stage feminist work, and was friends with many women much older than me, and was influenced by the anti-porn, anti-display mentality. This is not a bad thing, even if I don't agree with all of it anymore. In more recent years, through activism, I've found myself working with women 15, 20 years younger than me. They are feminists through and through, but to many of them, those attitudes seem prudish and narrow-minded - where feminism meets Victorianism, you could say. Several have done some kind of sex work or stripping/dancing. Others have helped put themselves through college doing ovum extraction (that is, donating their eggs for other women ...
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ReplyDeleteI will be rooting for you to kick JK Rowling's a**.
ReplyDeleteAll best wishes in meeting your dead-lines. We will say we knew l-girl when.
ReplyDeleteThank you for all your kind comments and support on my blog.
You guys are so funny. I'm as famous as I'll ever be. Fortunately fame was never my goal. I'm pretty happy to be a working writer, took me a damn long time to get here!
ReplyDeleteBarbara: you are most welcome. My heart goes out to you.